A colorful family is fertile ground for the imagination. Jamie Brickhouse, in his memoir Dangerous When Wet,
mines the depths of his family relationships for an alternately
heartbreaking, hilarious look at growing up and learning to take
responsibility for your own life.
Jamie grows up with his parents, but it is his mother that is the
dominant force in his young life. She is a bouffanted, fierce, and
devoted mother who praises Peggy Lee and believes in making her own
money. From her, Jamie learns that he has expectations to meet. That
thought—“What would Mama Jean think?”-- leads Jamie to the brink of
self-destruction.
Dangerous When Wet
has at its core Jamie’s struggle with alcohol and his attempts to get
sober. His flirtations with drugs and his long love affair with the
bottle affect each of his relationships—including with his partner, his
boss, and his mother. We see how his love of drink began, his attempts
to stay sober and his setbacks. In addition, the reader gets a powerful
look at the gay lifestyle during the early days of HIV. Jamie lives
with little thought for safe sex or the consequences of his
indiscriminate behavior. His chasing after this lifestyle has serious
health consequences for him and puts him in some dicey situations. His
life seemed rather flamboyant and outlandish.
The tone alternated between serious and more humorous, but the “funny”
parts fell flat for me. I just could not find much to laugh about in
this tale of addiction, recklessness, and irresponsibility. I did find
it effective, though, as a family memoir and as a tale of recovering
oneself after overcoming addiction. His mother was something else, and
his later relationship broke my heart. She was always in his corner in
her own way, and in the end, Jamie got the approval he needed.
Recommended if you like a good memoir or like to read about people overcoming challenges.
*I received a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review. Regina
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